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Four Months Left

I’m afraid I’m not going to reach my goal by year end, to play this on my guitar and sing it for Happy Wife.

In the meantime, enjoy Neil’s rendition. Live a little — turn up the volume!

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Sweet Pea

Pouring Rain. You can watch the grass grow. Must be state fair season.

What’s new? Oh, not too much, we are well, the dogs are good, especially Lucy, who is showing no signs of metastatic disease from the cancer she had removed from her neck in July. Did I mention that? Anyway, yeah, a big ugly growth on the back of her neck which we’d known about for months, but suddenly, like in a matter of days, it started growing bigger very quickly. Happy Wife thought it was likely a sebaceous cyst. Needle aspirate said Mast cell tumor. Pathology said, “Aggressive, stage 2.” This is not what you want to hear over the phone while on vacation.

When we returned home we had Lucy genotyped for mutations in the c-Kit gene, which, if positive, may indicate an especially aggressive tumor. Test came back negative. We considered chemotherapy, which would be largely prophylactic because a) barring clear symptoms, it’s very difficult (and expensive) to determine if the cancer has metastasized in a dog, and 2) it is also difficult to determine if the chemo is working if in fact the cancer had metastasized. Our vet advised, “I’d do nothing. The surgical margins were clean. Good chance we got it all. She’s going on 12. I’d spare her the chemo; just coddle her.”

So we did, and so we do.

I’ve started calling her Sweet Pea:

BIGGER.

Eat Your Beets!

BIGGER.

Grilled, crab-stuffed Alaskan Rockfish. Baked beets (from our garden) and goat cheese. Locally grown tomato and cucumber with avocado. Cabernet from Napa.

Get this: Cheetos White Cheese Puffs for dessert!

Hard to accept it’s already August 15th. And 67 and sunny to boot.

I know, I know. Don’t have to tell me. We’ve lived here almost 25 years you know.

Feud Averted, For Now

This is what happened.

One cheery, cloud-free day at our beach house I felled a small alder tree that had grown up on the border of our driveway and the neighbor’s driveway. The topmost portion of the tree, only the thin and frail branches, fell across a small patch of Fireweed growing along the neighbor’s driveway. Yes, I agree Fireweed are pretty, and yes, technically, the tree fell on their property; and yes, it did flatten but did not break — I verified this later — said Fireweed plants. Mea culpa. Now, it just so happened the neighbor was outside at the time and witnessed this. Well, she came at me like a Comanche warrior, and laid into me like I had just been arrested for kidnapping her daughter, throwing her down a deep well, and dancing about wildly dressed in women’s clothes threatening to kill her.

I just stood there, nonplussed, taking the brunt of her verbal assault.

When finally I recovered I said something to her, that her husband had previously given me permission to fell the tree, causing her to turn and snap at me like a wounded animal. I don’t recall what she said. Then she stomped off.

Slowly I dragged the tree onto our property. It wasn’t a large tree, maybe five inches in diameter, but it was partly occluding our peekaboo view of Resurrection Bay to the south. And now it isn’t!

Happy Wife was nearby and heard this go down. We both later agreed it would have been an ideal time to bark back at her, to point out the insult in our backyard, that ton or more of excess stone and gravel that a contractor under their hire had carelessly pushed onto our property, crushing what I’m sure were dozens of innocent Fireweed plants which will never again see the light of day.

But we didn’t. Because that’s not the way we roll. Generally speaking.

Resisting the temptation to escalate a war can make one feel magnanimous, but at the same time a willing victim as well. We resolved that we wouldn’t say another word about it, unless we hear her bring it up again. In that event, I dream of thrusting a spade in her face and demanding she remove the insult from our property, one toiling shovel full at a time, while Happy Wife and I look on from the comfort of our hot tub, sipping wine and giggling lightly as she struggles. </dream>.

WWII Book

Presently enjoying reading, The Deserters: A Hidden History of World War II.

I had no idea Mark Twain was a war deserter. Early in the book the author writes that Twain, “famously deserted from both sides.” I understood “both sides” to mean he had at different times deserted from both the union and the confederate causes. Goggling around, I quickly found evidence (search for deserter) that he had in fact deserted a southern militia during the civil war after only two weeks of service, excusing it later in writing by saying he was unfit to be a soldier, but if he ever served in the union ranks and deserted there, too, I couldn’t find any evidence.

I agree with one review that the book is long-winded on the details of the experiences of the three deserters around who the story is told. But so far (~20% in) I like the book; I find it well written, relatively unbiased and non-judgmental with regard to deserters.

Rod’s Funbox

I call it Rod’s Funbox.

Decant into quality ice-filled shaker the following:

4 shots (or so) quality Tequila.

2 shots Triple Sec.

2 shots lime juice.

Shake vigorously.

Place shaker on ice in Funbox. Fill two tall, lime-rimmed glasses with ice and place on ice in Funbox. Place litre of Jose Quervo margarita mix on ice in Funbox. Put sliced, fresh watermelon in container on ice in Funbox.

Take Funbox to front yard boardwalk, wait for Happy Wife arrival.

Say goodbye to July:

BIGGER.

Harsh Mistress

Happy Wife slept in a tent in the cool grass of the backyard last night. With Harry. No, I didn’t kick her out of the house, because no, we didn’t have a fight.

“I’m hot,” she said.

“Well, of course, dear, you know I think you’re smokin’.”

“No, not that hot. I mean it’s too hot in the house to sleep.”

Sure enough it was pretty stuffy in our bedroom (upstairs), must’ve been 80? Downstairs was cooler but evidently not cool enough.

Summer is a harsh mistress for the snow bunny.

Scatalogical

BIGGER.

Harry saw and inspected it first. Seen on the bluff trail overlooking Cook Inlet. One of our usual places for a morning hike, just minutes from home. Sure, this unprecedented, glorious summer weather we’re having has a lot to do with it, but I must say I never jade to the simple pleasure of my morning walk with the dogs. Even when coming on fresh evidence that we were not alone. And I don’t mean the small children playing on the sand dune this morning, not 300 feet from where I took this picture.